Trauma Demystified
Welcome to Trauma Demystified by Bright Horizon Therapies, hosted by Natalie Jovanic, an experienced Trauma Counsellor and Trauma Recovery Coach recognized for leading social justice in trauma therapy advocacy.
With lived experience of trauma and years of clinical expertise, Natalie offers insights, practical tools, and a gentle approach to help you navigate trauma and recovery. This podcast cuts through oversimplified advice and fear-based narratives to give you nuanced, honest conversations about what healing actually looks like.
Join us as we unveil the truth about healing from trauma—because you deserve more than just "manage your symptoms" or "avoid being triggered." You deserve to understand what's happening, trust yourself, and find your path forward.
Trauma Demystified
Finding the right trauma counsellor
How do you find a trauma counsellor who actually understands trauma—and won't cause more harm than healing? In this episode, I share my own painful experiences with unhelpful therapists, break down the essential traits of effective trauma counselling, and give you nine critical questions to ask before choosing a counsellor so you can find the right support for your unique healing journey.
What You'll Learn
- The five essential traits of a good trauma counsellor: trauma-informed practice, specialized training, healthy therapeutic relationships, psychoeducation, and collaborative assessment
- Why traditional talk therapy often fails trauma survivors—and what trauma-informed practice actually looks like in action
- Red flags to watch for: pity instead of empathy, pathologizing language, lack of boundary work, judgment, and power-over dynamics
- How trauma counsellors should handle power imbalances, privilege, and systemic oppression in the therapeutic relationship
- Why specialized training in EMDR, somatic approaches, parts work, and dissociation matters—and how counsellors should integrate these modalities
- The importance of psychoeducation about trauma: window of tolerance, polyvagal theory, structural dissociation, and nervous system regulation
- The difference between assessment (collaborative exploration) and diagnosis (fitting criteria)—and why collaborative assessment empowers your healing
- Why trauma counsellors need to do their own healing work—and how it affects the quality of care you receive
- Nine essential questions to ask during a free consultation to evaluate if a counsellor is the right fit for your needs
Who This Is For
This episode is for adults seeking trauma counselling who want to make informed choices about their therapeutic support—especially if you've had negative experiences with past therapists, feel confused about what effective trauma counselling should look like, or belong to marginalized communities and need a counsellor who understands systemic oppression and can navigate power and privilege healthily. It's also for anyone who wants to know exactly what questions to ask before committing to working with a trauma counsellor.
Additional resources
- Healing trauma: A step-by-step guide to reclaim your life: https://brighthorizontherapies.com/blog/healing-trauma/
- Benefits of trauma counselling: https://brighthorizontherapies.com/blog/why-is-trauma-counselling-important-empowering-recovery
If you’d like to explore more, here are some ways to connect:
- Discover more about my work: https://brighthorizontherapies.com/
- Follow along on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brighthorizontherapies/
- Send me a message: nat@brighthorizontherapies.com
Trauma Demystified is not intended to replace professional guidance, support, medical treatment, or therapy. Please feel free to consult your physician or a mental health professional for any questions about mental health symptoms.
Bright Horizon Therapies is located in the Treaty 7 region in Southern Alberta, which includes the Blackfoot Confederacy, the Tsuut’ina First Nation, and the Stoney Nakoda. This land is also home to Métis Nation of Alberta, Region III. I acknowledge the traditional caregivers of the land and the importance of a commitment to the continued decolonization of my work.
